So worried about being judged 😦
There’s something raw about blogging and social media. These technological advances make it possible for us to connect our private thoughts to a unbound forum, and it can make one feel vulnerable. I know I feel vulnerable when I share my thoughts, and I’m always relieved and flattered when people find them acceptable and consensus-building takes place.
Yet, why do I care if others find my thoughts acceptable? Why is acceptance the standard by which I judge myself? Shouldn’t I be confident in my own beliefs, attitudes, and values, enough so that if I share them and somebody disagrees (or worse, disapproves) that it won’t crush me, cause guilt, or put me on the defensive?
And yet, that is how I respond (privately) over and over again, to the act of releasing my thoughts into cyberspace.
I keep telling myself that it’s…
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